Millions of working class Malaysians dread Monday mornings. Ironically, I love it! I guess it depends on your job, really. Experimenting with jobs can be beneficial; that's how I discovered academia is my cuppa. I'm not implying that work gets easier if you enjoy your job. It's just that when you find a perfect fit, everything falls in place naturally. Also, injecting yourself with a mild dose of PMA (positive mental attitude) can be useful. It fuels you to drive away from all forms of negativity, be it at work or elsewhere.
I was discussing with R some days back on how smooth my life has been. The ups and downs that we commonly face have been very minor. Accommodating parents, supportive brother and a handful of true friends are factors that carved this silky path. I'm very grateful for being blessed in abundance and I couldn't thank HIM more for this.
Now for some intriguing statistics. Due to the nature of my dad's job, we were constantly traveling within Malaysia. I studied in 4 different states (Kedah, Negeri Sembilan, Sabah & Selangor); 2 pre-schools, 2 elementary schools and 2 high schools. Coincidently, I went to 2 colleges and 2 universities. I held 2 different jobs in the past and was involved in 2 serious relationships.
The point that I wish to make is, I have had and still have a myriad of friends and colleagues. Some friends came into my life naturally, some accidentally, some deliberately and some unknowingly. I may not be able to recall all of them by their names but I believe in the goodness that they brought into my life. However, there are only a handful of them who truly understand and appreciate our friendship, which does not need renewing or a bolt of lighting to recharge it periodically.
It's an arduous task to strike a balance between work and my social. Living a typical metropolitan routine, multitasking is mandatory and to perform well, prioritizing is essential. I'm currently up to my neck with work, studies, family, relationship, photography and close buddies. The only time I have to myself is spent at FF.
Some years back, I used to be actively involved in community service. However, my current condition does not enable me to do so. Absolutely no regrets but I do look forward to making a comeback, earliest by next year. The break is doing me good. Once I'm fully rejuvenated, I'll be back! You guys at SYF and SNSM, keep it going ya?!
With heaps going on at every corner of my life, I have developed no fear in losing friends. I expressed this to J and he reassured me with words that are now stuck in my head, "Don't worry about broken ties for new and even better ones are established every day".
Wow, it's already 11am! Have to abruptly end here.